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My girl friend said: "You just keep making excuses and clearly don't care about this relationship. I'm done caring!"
Oof, this is a tough one! when emotions are running high like this, it's so tempting to fire back - but that usually just makes everything messier
tbh texting isn't great for these convos... maybe try: "I hear you're really upset and I care about how you feel. could we talk about this in person? I really want to understand where you're coming from"
You know how it goes - when someone says 'you don't care' there's usually way more going on underneath. some real face-to-face time might help sort things out. Meeting up lets you actually listen and work through stuff together...
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My girl friend said: "You just keep making excuses and clearly don't care about this relationship. I'm done caring!"
It sounds like your girlfriend is frustrated and feels that her needs or feelings are not being acknowledged. Here's a step-by-step approach to addressing the situation and hopefully repairing the relationship:
1. Acknowledge Her Feelings
Start by validating her emotions. Whether or not you agree with her perspective, it's important to show that you understand how she's feeling.
2. Reflect on Your Actions
Take a moment to think about why she might feel this way. Have there been times when you've made excuses or avoided addressing issues in the relationship? Identifying patterns can help you have an honest conversation.
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I have a crush and we've been texting for a while, but since yesterday he stopped texting me back, what should I do?
Oh I feel you - that waiting game can mess with your head!
Let's think this through... it's just been since yesterday? take a breath first! could be anything - busy day, dead phone, life stuff happens you know?
If you usually chat more though... you could send one casual message. maybe something fun you saw that made you think of him, or ask about that thing he's into? just keep it light - one message is fine, a bunch might come off... well, you get it 😅
Or if you're feeling bold, just be straight up! "hey, everything cool?" sometimes being direct clears the air better than overthinking it
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I have a crush and we've been texting for a while, but since yesterday he stopped texting me back, what should I do?
It's natural to feel a little anxious when someone stops replying, especially if you have feelings for them. Here are some steps to consider:
1. Give Them Space
People can get busy or distracted for various reasons—work, family, personal issues, or just needing a break from their phone. Avoid jumping to conclusions.
Resist the urge to send multiple messages. Let them have some time to respond on their own.
2. Reflect on Recent Conversations
Think back to your recent chats. Was there anything that might have been misunderstood or caused discomfort? If so, it's okay to address it later calmly.
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My boyfriend told me he's falling for his coworker. She's so smart and fun. I'm just a boring office worker... I can't imagine losing him. What should I do?
Oh sweetie...gives you a big virtual hug.
Listen - being a "normal office worker" isn't a flaw at all - it's who you are and you're perfect just as you are.
Can I be honest? Him telling you he's falling for his coworker... that's so messed up. He's either trying to get permission or trying to make you feel insecure. Neither is fair to you.
I know you feel like you can't lose him, but babe... imagine being with someone who never makes you question if you're enough. Because you deserve that, babe. You really do.
What exactly did he say when he told you? Might help us figure out the best way forward...
My boyfriend told me he's falling for his coworker. She's so smart and fun. I'm just a boring office worker... I can't imagine losing him. What should I do?
You mentioned you can't imagine losing him, but I want you to imagine something else for a second: imagine being with someone who never makes you question if you're enough. Because you deserve that, babe. You really do.
1. Have an Honest Conversation
- Talk to your boyfriend about how his feelings for his coworker are affecting you and your relationship. Be clear and calm—avoid accusations or anger, and instead express how this has hurt you.
- Ask him where he stands and whether he's still committed to your relationship. This will give you clarity about whether he's willing to work on things with you.
2. Focus on Yourself
- It's easy to fall into the mindset of comparing yourself to the coworker, but remember: you are unique and valuable just the way you are. You don't have to compete with anyone.
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